Ready for Lights

Main Thought

Most of us have endured difficult circumstances over the past two years. You might have faced one hard thing after another, or dealt with multiple difficulties at the same time. Distress can rule our days until we find ourselves in a dark place. But God wants to be with us! He wants to bring light into the darkness of our lives. He can be our Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, and Prince of Peace. God’s light shines brightest when we allow Him to reign. God reigns when He’s our first priority; when He calls the shots; when He is Lord. Does God reign in your life?

Main Passages

21 They will pass through the land, greatly distressed and hungry. And when they are hungry, they will be enraged and will speak contemptuously against their king and their God, and turn their faces upward. 22 And they will look to the earth, but behold, distress and darkness, the gloom of anguish. And they will be thrust into thick darkness.

2 The people who walked in darkness have seen a great light; those who dwelt in a land of deep darkness, on them has light shone.

- Isaiah 8:21-22; 9:2

14 Therefore the Lord himself will give you a sign. Behold, the virgin shall conceive and bear a son, and shall call his name Immanuel.

- Isaiah 7:14

6 For to us a child is born, to us a son is given; and the government shall be upon his shoulder, and his name shall be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace. 7 Of the increase of his government and of peace there will be no end, on the throne of David and over his kingdom, to establish it and to uphold it with justice and with righteousness from this time forth and forevermore. The zeal of the Lord of hosts will do this.

- Isaiah 9:6-7

Discussion Questions

1. Does God reign in your internal world: your heart, emotions, thoughts, attitudes, etc.? Why or why not? 

2. Does God reign in your external world: your habits, your time, your schedule, etc.? Why or why not?

3. What practical adjustment can you make to allow God to increase his reign in your life?

The "Altared" Dreams of Joseph

Main Thought

Joseph, the eventual husband of Mary and adopted father of Christ, was a man who had dreams too. The Greek word for his profession, often translated as “carpenter,” would have been more in line with what we call an architect or a general contractor. He would have worked for years to pay a high “bride price” before becoming betrothed to Mary. Then, his betrothed became pregnant! Who would have believed that it was actually an act of God? Joseph was righteous and wanted to send Mary away quietly. But God came to Joseph in a dream and made it clear that His plans were different. Instead of holding onto his goals and plans, Joseph submitted to God and obeyed Him. This obedience likely cost him his reputation; it would have been costly financially, and it cost them their comfort. But Joseph received the great privilege of being involved in God’s mission to save the world through Jesus. If we are willing to “altar” our dreams - place them on a metaphorical altar to God, changing (or altering) our plans to align with God’s purpose - then we’ll eventually find that God’s plans for us are better than our wildest dreams for ourselves.

Main Passages

This is how the birth of Jesus the Messiah came about: His mother Mary was betrothed to be married to Joseph, but before they came together, she was found to be with child by the Holy Spirit. 19 And Joseph her husband, being a righteous man and not wanting to disgrace her, planned to send her away secretly. 20 But after he had considered this, an angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream and said, “Joseph son of David, do not be afraid to take Mary as your wife, because the child who has been conceived in her is of the Holy Spirit. 21 She will bear a son, and you shall call him Jesus, because he will save his people from their sins.” 22 All this took place to fulfill what the Lord had said through the prophet: 23 “The virgin shall be with child and shall bear a son, and they shall call his name Immanuel” (which means “God with us”). 24 When Joseph woke up, he did what the angel of the Lord had commanded him and took Mary home as his wife. 25 But kept her a virgin until she gave birth to a Son; and he called His name Jesus.

- Matthew 1:18-25

Discussion Questions

1. What stands out to you in the Main Thought or Passage above?

2. Pastor Brett said: “You need to live long enough to look back and thank God for saying ‘no’ to some things.” Can you look back at your life and thank God for saying “no” to any of your prayers or desires? Why?

3. What dream or plan do you need to offer to God, even if He changes it? What attitude or action step can you take practically as you do this?

The Lost Art of Gratitude

Main Thought

Every year, the month of November kicks off the holiday season with a theme of gratitude and thankfulness. Gratitude can be defined as the act of feeling AND  communicating appreciation and thankfulness for people, circumstances and possessions in our lives. Our main text tells the story of Nehemiah, who took it upon himself to  lead a group of Israelites to rebuild the broken walls around Jerusalem. Thankfulness is not the central theme in the this story. But we can learn from Nehemiah who, after completing the wall, made it a point to stop everything they were doing to express their thankfulness to God. As we come out of the Thanksgiving holiday, and progress into Christmas and the new year, let’s use the following discussion questions to help us reflect on the theme of always being thankful and expressing it to God and others.

Main Passages

27 And at the dedication of the wall of Jerusalem they sought the Levites in all their places, to bring them to Jerusalem to celebrate the dedication with gladness, with thanksgivings and with singing, with cymbals, harps, and lyres. 28 And the sons of the singers gathered together from the district surrounding Jerusalem and from the villages of the Netophathites; 29 also from Beth-gilgal and from the region of Geba and Azmaveth, for the singers had built for themselves villages around Jerusalem. 30 And the priests and the Levites purified themselves, and they purified the people and the gates and the wall. 31 Then I brought the leaders of Judah up onto the wall and appointed two great choirs that gave thanks. One went to the south on the wall to the Dung Gate. 32 And after them went Hoshaiah and half of the leaders of Judah

38 The other choir of those who gave thanks went to the north, and I followed them with half of the people, on the wall, above the Tower of the Ovens, to the Broad Wall,

40 So both choirs of those who gave thanks stood in the house of God, and I and half of the officials with me; 

43 And they offered great sacrifices that day and rejoiced, for God had made them rejoice with great joy; the women and children also rejoiced. And the joy of Jerusalem was heard far away.

- Nehemiah 12:27-32, 38, 40, 43

2 Count it all joy, my brothers, when you meet trials of various kinds…

- James 1:2

16 Rejoice always, 17 pray without ceasing, 18 give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.

- 1 Thessalonians 5:16-18

Discussion Questions

1. Do you personally find it easy or difficult to express gratitude to God or to others? Explain. 

2. With 2020-2021 being such challenging years, what are some things that you are grateful for that have come out of this difficult season?

3. What are some ways you can actively show gratitude towards God and in the next few weeks? How can you show gratitude towards others?

Turning Temptation into Triumph

Main Thought

We’ve all been tempted. There’s no avoiding it. Sometimes it’s something small, like eating a delicious dessert while trying to eat healthy. Other times, it may be something more significant and harmful leading to feelings of guilt and regret. The bible uses the word “temptation” and “trials” interchangeably. As strange as it sounds, temptation in itself is not wrong. God sees these moments as trials and an opportunity for our spiritual growth. At the same time, the devil sees these moments as an opportunity to cause you to fail creating separation between you and god. The end result, positive or negative, depends on your response. The good news is Jesus himself, knows what it’s like to be tempted. He also overcame the temptation and makes it possible for us to do the same.

Main Passages

9 Pray then like this: “Our Father in heaven, hallowed be your name. 10 Your kingdom come, your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven. 11 Give us this day our daily bread 12 and forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors.13 And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.
- Matthew 6:9-13

Then Jesus was led up by the Spirit into the wilderness to be tempted by the devil. 2 And after fasting forty days and forty nights, he was hungry. 3 And the tempter came and said to him, “If you are the Son of God, command these stones to become loaves of bread.” 4 But he answered, “It is written, “‘Man shall not live by bread alone, but by every word that comes from the mouth of God.’” 5 Then the devil took him to the holy city and set him on the pinnacle of the temple 6 and said to him, “If you are the Son of God, throw yourself down, for it is written, “‘He will command his angels concerning you,’ and “‘On their hands they will bear you up, lest you strike your foot against a stone.’” 7 Jesus said to him, “Again it is written, ‘You shall not put the Lord your God to the test.’” 8 Again, the devil took him to a very high mountain and showed him all the kingdoms of the world and their glory. 9 And he said to him, “All these I will give you, if you will fall down and worship me.” 10 Then Jesus said to him, “Be gone, Satan! For it is written, “‘You shall worship the Lord your Go and him only shall you serve.’”
- Matthew 4:1-10

12 Therefore let anyone who thinks that he stands take heed lest he fall. 13 No temptation has overtaken you that is not common to man. God is faithful, and he will not let you be tempted beyond your ability, but with the temptation he will also provide the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it.
- 1 Corinthians 10:12-13

For this reason he had to be made like them, fully human in every way, in order that he might become a merciful and faithful high priest in service to God, and that he might make atonement for the sins of the people. 18 Because he himself suffered when he was tempted, he is able to help those who are being tempted.
- Hebrews 2:17-18 (NIV)

Discussion Questions

1. What stood out from the main thought and the main passages above?

2. According to the passages above, what are some weapons that we can use when we face temptation? What other tools not mentioned above, do you find helpful when experiencing temptation?

3. What area of testing or temptation are you believing God to give you victory over? What steps can you take to put yourself in a position to win in this area this week?

The Heart of Forgiveness

Main Thought

Forgiveness is “ RELATING to others based on God’s MERCY toward US and RELEASING others to God’s JUSTICE.” In the Gospel of Matthew, we are reminded in ‘The Lord’s Prayer’ that forgiveness should be as regular a part of our lives as asking for our “daily bread.” We are also reminded that we must not only seek God’s forgiveness but also seek to extend forgiveness to others as well. And as we allow God’s forgiveness to come “to us” and flow “through us”, we will keep the door of His peace, blessing, and favor open in our lives.

Main Passages

Pray then like this: “Our Father in heaven, hallowed be your name. 10 Your kingdom come, your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven. 11 Give us this day our daily bread, 12 and forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors. 13 And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil. 14 For if you forgive others their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you, 15 but if you do not forgive others their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.
- Matthew 6:9-15

“Therefore the kingdom of heaven may be compared to a king who wished to settle accounts with his servants. 24 When he began to settle, one was brought to him who owed him ten thousand talents. 25 And since he could not pay, his master ordered him to be sold, with his wife and children and all that he had, and payment to be made. 26 So the servant fell on his knees, imploring him, ‘Have patience with me, and I will pay you everything.’ 27 And out of pity for him, the master of that servant released him and forgave him the debt. 28 But when that same servant went out, he found one of his fellow servants who owed him a hundred denarii, and seizing him, he began to choke him, saying, ‘Pay what you owe.’ 29 So his fellow servant fell down and pleaded with him, ‘Have patience with me, and I will pay you.’ 30 He refused and went and put him in prison until he should pay the debt. 31 When his fellow servants saw what had taken place, they were greatly distressed, and they went and reported to their master all that had taken place. 32 Then his master summoned him and said to him, ‘You wicked servant! I forgave you all that debt because you pleaded with me. 33 And should not you have had mercy on your fellow servant, as I had mercy on you?’ 34 And in anger his master delivered him to the jailers, until he should pay all his debt. 35 So also my heavenly Father will do to every one of you, if you do not forgive your brother from your heart.”
- Matthew 18:21-35, ESV

Discussion Questions

1. What stood out to you from the main thought and main passage above?

2. Share about a time when you either received forgiveness (from God or others) OR when you extended forgiveness to others. What happened? How did it impact your life?

3. In what area of your life do you need to experience God’s forgiveness? And to whom (or what) do you think God is challenging you to extend forgiveness to today ? (a family member, co-worker, yourself, an unexpected situation, etc.)

Close:

As you close, take a moment to pray for one another and to personally pray for forgiveness as needed. Below are a few helpful “sample prayers” to help you to pray for forgiveness, if you’re not sure where to start:

For Personal Forgiveness:

“Father, in the name of Jesus, please forgive me for _______(describe what happened)______ . Thank you for forgiving me and for helping to live for you. Amen.”

For Forgiving Others:

“Father, in the name of Jesus, I choose to forgive___(person, yourself, or a situation) for _____(describe what happened)___________. Amen.”

All I Need

Main Thought

Sometimes, we become anxious or worried when our minds dwell on the things we need. Did you know that God is aware of our needs too? While we should work hard, we should also acknowledge God as our ultimate provider. He knows what we need and when to give it to us. We can come to God and confess our needs to Him. He’s a Good Father who wants to provide! But why do we need to confess our needs to God when He already knows what they are? Consistently praying for our needs builds our trust in God and develops our relationship with Him. We can ask Him to provide daily, and we can grow closer to Him every step along the way.

Main Passages

Pray then like this: “Our Father in heaven, hallowed be your name.  Your kingdom come, your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread, and forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors. And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.

- Matthew 6:9-13

Therefore do not be anxious, saying, ‘What shall we eat?’ or ‘What shall we drink?’ or ‘What shall we wear?’ 32 For the Gentiles seek after all these things, and your heavenly Father knows that you need them all.

- Matthew 6:31-32

33 But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.

- Matthew 6:33

Discussion Questions

1. What stands out to you in the Main Thought or Main Passages above?

2. Have you ever seen God miraculously meet your needs, or the needs of someone you know?

3. What do you need God to provide in this season? Pray with your group.

The Power of Persistent Prayer

Main Thought

In the Gospel of Luke, the topic of persistent prayer immediately follows  what we know today as “The Lord’s Prayer.” Jesus highlights the principle of praying and not giving up because He understood that persisting in prayer is the key to seeing God’s Kingdom come and God’s will done on Earth. As we persist in prayer, God changes something IN us so that He can change the world THROUGH us. As God works in us, He 1)  “sensitizes” our hearts (so that we care about what He cares about), 2) strengthens our will to obey Him, and 3) shapes our character (so we become more like Him.)

Ultimately,  persisting in prayer begins with having a  relationship with God. As we hold the “faith tension”  between God’s goodness (having a” Restful Trust”) and God’s ability (having a “Confident Hope”), we will continue to be fueled to pray until something happens. 

Main Passages

“And he told them a parable to the effect that they ought always to pray and not lose heart. 2 He said, “In a certain city there was a judge who neither feared God nor respected man. 3 And there was a widow in that city who kept coming to him and saying, ‘Give me justice against my adversary.’ 4 For a while he refused, but afterward he said to himself, ‘Though I neither fear God nor respect man, 5 yet because this widow keeps bothering me, I will give her justice, so that she will not beat me down by her continual coming.’” 6 And the Lord said, “Hear what the unrighteous judge says. 7 And will not God give justice to his elect, who cry to him day and night? Will he delay long over them? 8 I tell you, he will give justice to them speedily. Nevertheless, when the Son of Man comes, will he find faith on earth?” 

- Luke 18:1-8, ESV

“And he [Jesus] withdrew from them about a stone's throw, and knelt down and prayed, 42 saying, “Father, if you are willing, remove this cup from me. Nevertheless, not my will, but yours, be done.” 43 And there appeared to him an angel from heaven, strengthening him. 44 And being in agony he prayed more earnestly…”

- Luke 22:41-44, ESV

Discussion Questions

1. What stood out to you from the main thought and main passage above?

2. As  we persist in prayer, God often desires to  1)  “sensitize” our hearts (so that we care about what He cares about), 2) strengthen our will to obey Him, or  3) shape our character (so we become more like Him.) What do you think God wants to change in you as you persist in praying for someone or something? 

3. For whom  or for what does God want you to persistently pray for in this season so that He can change the world through you? 

Coming to God isn't Complicated

Main Thought

Sometimes, things that should be simple can become complicated. Coming to God in prayer should be simple! But we complicate it with our desire to be “great.” Sometimes, we want to feel great. If we feel anxious, hurried, upset, or unfocused, then we might not pray. Sometimes, we want to sound great. We want to say the right things in the right way. This creates an unattainable and unsustainable standard that no one can meet. We might even want to look great, earning our right to speak with God because of the good things we do. These complications often keep us from talking to God at all. They cause us to feel distant from God. Instead of complicating prayer, God wants us to come to Him like children. Children don’t hide their feelings. They play and lose focus all the time. Children blurt things out and aren’t concerned with how they sound. And children don’t mind being a little messy. God is a good Father who just wants His children to speak with Him.

Main Passages

33 And they came to Capernaum. And when he was in the house he asked them, “What were you discussing on the way?” 34 But they kept silent, for on the way they had argued with one another about who was the greatest.

- Mark 9:33-34

13 And they were bringing children to him that he might touch them, and the disciples rebuked them. 14 But when Jesus saw it, he was indignant and said to them, “Let the children come to me; do not hinder them, for to such belongs the kingdom of God. 15 Truly, I say to you, whoever does not receive the kingdom of God like a child shall not enter it.”

- Mark 10:13-15

Behold, I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears my voice and opens the door, I will come in to him and eat with him, and he with me.

- Revelation 3:20

Discussion Questions

1. What stood out to you from last Sunday’s sermon, the Main Thought, or the Main Passages above? 

2. Have you ever complicated prayer with a desire to be “great” in some way? If so, how?

3. What adjustment can you make to come before God like a child?

Be a Blessing

Main Thought

God wants His people to be a blessing to those around them. It’s so important that He actually commands it! Being a blessing demonstrates God’s love and points people to Jesus. Yet these truths only become transformational once relationships have formed. Thankfully, being a blessing to others is an excellent doorway into relationships with people. We can share the gospel more effectively with those who trust us. Blessing others can impact them on earth and throughout eternity. Then, as a bonus, God promises to bless us when we bless others.

Main Passages

13 “You are the salt of the earth, but if salt has lost its taste, how shall its saltiness be restored? It is no longer good for anything except to be thrown out and trampled under people's feet. 14 “You are the light of the world. A city set on a hill cannot be hidden. 15 Nor do people light a lamp and put it under a basket, but on a stand, and it gives light to all in the house. 16 In the same way, let your light shine before others, so that they may see your good works and give glory to your Father who is in heaven.

- Matthew 5:13-16 ESV

“…for we aim at what is honorable not only in the Lord’s sight but also in the sight of man.”

- 2 Corinthians 8:21 ESV

“And my God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus.”

- Philippians 4:19 ESV

Discussion Questions

1. What stood out to you in the Main Thought or Main Passages above?

2. Has someone ever blessed you in a way that demonstrated God’s love for you? What happened?

3. Who can you bless this week? Could there be an opportunity for you to be S.A.L.T.?

   S: Start a conversation

   A: Ask questions

   L: Listen well

   T: Tell your story (and connect it to THE story, the Gospel)

A Touch of Heaven

Main Thought

Have you ever traveled (or even moved) somewhere new and different? Different places are filled with different languages, expressions, customs, and more. It can take a while to get used to a new place after experiencing this “culture shock.” But that’s exactly what God wants us to do. He wants us to become accustomed to His Kingdom and its culture. Jesus often did things differently than culture expected; through Him, we get a glimpse of God’s desires. If we become accustomed to God’s Kingdom, then we can operate as agents of His Kingdom who accomplish HIs will on the earth.

Main Passages

9 Pray then like this: “Our Father in heaven, hallowed be your name. 10  Your kingdom come, your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven. 11 Give us this day our daily bread, 12 and forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors. 13 And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil. 14 For if you forgive others their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you, 15 but if you do not forgive others their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses.

- Matthew 6:9-15

8 For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, declares the Lord. 9 For as the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts. - Isaiah 55:8-9

7 And proclaim as you go, saying, ‘The kingdom of heaven is at hand. 8 Heal the sick, raise the dead, cleanse lepers, cast out demons. 9 You received without paying; give without pay.

- Matthew 10:7-9

Discussion Questions

1. In what ways did Jesus do things differently than mainstream society would do or expect? (“Love your enemies,” “Whoever desires to be first among you must be the servant of all,” “Leave the 99 to go after the one,” etc.)

2. In what ways are you personally challenged to adjust to God’s Kingdom and/or His way of doing things?

3. Is there a practical step of faith you can take this week to act as an agent of God’s Kingdom?

Our Father

Main Thought

Jesus taught His followers to pray in a revolutionary way. He tells us to address God as “our Father.” Realizing that God is our Father changes the way we think about prayer. As our Father, God loves us more than we can imagine. He also operates in a totally different realm, which means He’s more powerful than we can comprehend. God’s power and love puts Him in a class all by Himself. Love means that He wants to help us, and power means that He’s able to help us. That’s why we should be willing to pray “big prayers.” If we only pray for ordinary things, then we’ll only receive ordinary answers to prayer. If we ask God for extraordinary things, then we’ll begin to see extraordinary answers! Remember, our Father in Heaven is an extraordinary God.

Main Passages

9 “This, then, is how you should pray: “‘Our Father in heaven, hallowed be your name, 10 your kingdom come, your will be done, on earth as it is in heaven. 11 Give us today our daily bread. 12 And forgive us our debts, as we also have forgiven our debtors. 13 And lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from the evil one.’ 14 For if you forgive other people when they sin against you, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. 15 But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins. 

- Matthew 6:9-15

17 Jesus said to her, “Do not cling to me, for I have not yet ascended to the Father; but go to my brothers and say to them, ‘I am ascending to my Father and your Father, to my God and your God.’” 

- John 20:17

Thus says the Lord: “Heaven is my throne, and the earth is my footstool; 

- Isaiah 66:1

Discussion Questions

1. Can you think of any answers to prayer in your life, whether they were ordinary or extraordinary?

2. Do you believe that a) you can approach God as a good, loving Father; and, b) God has the power to help you? Please explain.

3. Pray together and ask God for something extraordinary! (Partner or cluster as necessary.)

Mental Illness and the Christian

Main Thought

“Mental illness” is one of the most misunderstood struggles we’ll face, even as Christians. It’s very important that we understand the nature of the battle, how to help one another, and how we can overcome. Christians need to understand that the battle for our mental health and wellness is fought on three fronts. Those three fronts are the mental, the physical, and the spiritual. Godly and gentle help can help us figure out which front (or fronts) needs care. Furthermore, we can all expect to struggle with one of three big issues to some extent: anxiety, depression, or control (OCD). Our responses to these things can help or hurt one another. Finally, we must use God-given strategies to overcome. Knowing the truth, believing the truth, and speaking the truth can help us live with mental wellness.

Main Passages

Dear brothers and sisters, if another believer is overcome by some sin, you who are godly should gently and humbly help that person back onto the right path. And be careful not to fall into the same temptation yourself. 2 Share each other’s burdens, and in this way obey the law of Christ. 3 If you think you are too important to help someone, you are only fooling yourself. You are not that important. 4 Pay careful attention to your own work, for then you will get the satisfaction of a job well done, and you won’t need to compare yourself to anyone else. 5 For we are each responsible for our own conduct. 6 Those who are taught the word of God should provide for their teachers, sharing all good things with them. 7 Don’t be misled—you cannot mock the justice of God. You will always harvest what you plant. 

- Galatians 6:1-7

6 Don’t worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank him for all he has done. 7 Then you will experience God’s peace, which exceeds anything we can understand. His peace will guard your hearts and minds as you live in Christ Jesus. 8 And now, dear brothers and sisters, one final thing. Fix your thoughts on what is true, and honorable, and right, and pure, and lovely, and admirable. Think about things that are excellent and worthy of praise. 9 Keep putting into practice all you learned and received from me—everything you heard from me and saw me doing. Then the God of peace will be with you.

- Philippians 4:6-8

Discussion Questions

1. What stood out to you from Pastor Bret Holman’s sermon, or from the Main Thought above?

2. Pastor Bret shared the following three terms and definitions. Which, if any, do you struggle with most and why?

   1. Anxiety: divided with distracting worries and outcomes.

   2. Depression: weighed down with anxiety and discouragement.

   3. Control (OCD): grabbing for control due to anxiety and fear.

3. Did you see something in one of the Main Passages, or hear something from the sermon, that can help you practically? If so, what?

Fixing Frustration

Main Thought

Frustration is an unavoidable part of life. We will find ourselves frustrated often, because there will always be cause for frustration in the world we live in. Our frustration can even reach a breaking point. It can affect us spiritually, emotionally, and physically. But God invites us to “pour our souls out” to Him! Praying honest prayers can help us pour our souls out to God one-on-one. Journaling helps too. Then, we can put our faith in God by moving in the direction He’s called us. We will eventually find God’s favor if we continue to follow Him even when we’re frustrated. God’s favor can be found in us; for us; and through us, as we see our perseverance make a difference in the lives of others.

Main Passages

10 She was deeply distressed and prayed to the Lord and wept bitterly.

- 1 Samuel 1:10

15 But Hannah answered, “No, my lord, I am a woman troubled in spirit. I have drunk neither wine nor strong drink, but I have been pouring out my soul before the Lord. 16 Do not regard your servant as a worthless woman, for all along I have been speaking out of my great anxiety and vexation.”

- 1 Samuel 1:15-16

17 Then Eli answered, “Go in peace, and the God of Israel grant your petition that you have made to him.” 18 And she said, “Let your servant find favor in your eyes.” Then the woman went her way and ate, and her face was no longer sad.

- 1 Samuel 1:17-18

Discussion Questions

1. We can respond to frustration - and other difficult emotions - improperly when we attempt to A) deny it; B) distort it (which can include mislabeling our negative emotions); or C) disengage from it with distractions.

   1. Do you have a tendency to do any of these three things? Which one and why?

2. Do you think it’s important to “pour our souls out to God” one-on-one? Why or why not?

3. What can you do practically to either pour your soul out to God, or put your faith in Him and move forward?

Living in the Balance

Main Thought

A lot of us go through life with “a full plate.” We’ve got lots of responsibilities and things to do. But what happens when you have a full plate and lose your balance? Things get messy! God wants us to live our lives with balance. This starts when we put Jesus first. Then, we need to be intentional about making space for ourselves and for others. These first three things can already take significant energy, which is why it’s important to “stay full.” We need to partake of habits, activities, and resources that fill our tanks and prepare us for life’s challenges. We can’t assume everything will go well; therefore, it’s wise to make room for disruptions. To live with margin. These principles are a great start - but it’s impossible to prepare for everything. This brings us back to following the lead of Jesus Christ.

Main Passages

34 Hearing that Jesus had silenced the Sadducees, the Pharisees got together. 35 One of them, an expert in the law, tested him with this question: 36 “Teacher, which is the greatest commandment in the Law?” 37 Jesus replied: “‘Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.’ 38 This is the first and greatest commandment. 39 And the second is like it: ‘Love your neighbor as yourself.’ 40 All the Law and the Prophets hang on these two commandments.”

- Matthew 22:34-40

8 Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things. 9 What you have learned and received and heard and seen in me—practice these things, and the God of peace will be with you. 

- Philippians 4:8-9 

I therefore, a prisoner for the Lord, urge you to walk in a manner worthy of the calling to which you have been called, with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love, eager to maintain the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace. 

- Ephesians 4:1-3

Discussion Questions

1. Do you feel like your life is balanced? Why or why not?

2. Balance begins with intentionally making room for God, for ourselves, and for others. Which of these things is easiest for you? Which is the hardest for you?

3. Think about the Main Thought and Passages above. What can you do to regain (or gain even more) balance this week?

The Yoke’s on You - Rest for your Soul

Main Thought

The Pelicano was a freighter (a ship) loaded with 28 million pounds of toxic ash. It went from port-to-port, but only to refuel. No country would allow it to unload its toxic ash. This can be a picture of Christians. We’re “refueled” with things like church, Life Group, worship music and podcasts. But we might not stop long enough to empty our souls of toxicity we accumulate simply by living in this world. How do we get rid of these burdens? Through rest. Jesus teaches us to rest. This starts as we accept His invitation to rest without fear, excuses, or pride that comes from busyness. Choosing to rest is a matter of submission to God that can reveal how much we trust Him. Jesus wants to transform us into His image. He teaches us to live from a posture of gentleness and humility like Him. Our souls find rest when these things happen in our lives; rest from the chaos around us, and from the chaos inside us.

Main Passages

Keep your heart with all vigilance, for from it flow the springs of life.

- Proverbs 4:23

28 Come to me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest. 29 Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me, for I am gentle and lowly in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. 30 For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.”

- Matthew 11:28-30

Discussion Questions

1. The word “labor” can refer to the burdens we put on ourselves, and the phrase “heavy laden” can refer to the burdens placed upon us by other people or by the world. Do either of these things (or both of them) apply to you in this season?

2. What makes rest effective vs. ineffective? How can God be involved in finding effective rest?

3. Rest looks different for us as the seasons of our lives change. What does “rest” look like for you? What practical adjustments need to be made for you to find rest?

Empowered Living

Main Thought

God wants to give us power! God’s power does different things in us and through us. First, God gives us power to live holy lives before Him. He transforms our desires, our actions, and our habits. Transformed habits - in our thinking and behavior - eventually transform our lives. We’re also empowered to be witnesses for God. Witnesses tell people about what they’ve experienced in God. But we don’t stop at witnessing. We also receive God’s power to continue the work of discipleship, helping others follow Jesus. We walk with people until their lives are transformed too. 

Main Passages

“And while staying with them he ordered them not to depart from Jerusalem, but to wait for the promise of the Father, which, he said, “you heard from me; for John baptized with water, but you will be baptized with the Holy Spirit not many days from now.” So when they had come together, they asked him, “Lord, will you at this time restore the kingdom to Israel?” He said to them, “It is not for you to know times or seasons that the Father has fixed by his own authority. But you will receive power when the Holy Spirit has come upon you, and you will be my witnesses in Jerusalem and in all Judea and Samaria, and to the end of the earth.””

- ‭‭Acts‬ ‭1:4-8‬ ‭ESV‬‬

“I baptize you with water for repentance, but he who is coming after me is mightier than I, whose sandals I am not worthy to carry. He will baptize you with the Holy Spirit and fire. His winnowing fork is in his hand, and he will clear his threshing floor and gather his wheat into the barn, but the chaff he will burn with unquenchable fire.””

- ‭‭Matthew‬ ‭3:11-12‬ ‭ESV‬‬

“And Jesus came and said to them, “All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me. Go therefore and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you. And behold, I am with you always, to the end of the age.””

- ‭‭Matthew‬ ‭28:18-20‬ ‭ESV‬‬

Discussion Questions

1. Have you ever experienced God’s power to live a holy, transformed life? If so, how?

2. Think about Acts 1:4-8. What do you think it means to “wait” on God? Are you doing that consistently?

3. God empowers us to live transformed, holy lives for Him; to be witnesses for Him; and to make disciples for Him. Where do you need God’s power to help you most in this season?

How Do We Do It?

Main Thought

The Bible tells us that everyone has sinned, choosing some selfish desire over a relationship with God. One consequence of sin is shame. But Jesus came to us in the midst of our sin and shame. He lived a perfect life, died in our place, and rose again to do so. We go as witnesses to others because God came to us first! We can all start by reaching the people around us. Yet reaching other regions and countries is a daunting task. How do we do it? In the Every Nation family, we reach the ends of the earth by prioritizing Church Planting and Campus Ministry. We advance God’s Kingdom as a movement when we systematically participate and invest in those things.

Main Passages

6 So when the woman saw that the tree was good for food, and that it was a delight to the eyes, and that the tree was to be desired to make one wise, she took of its fruit and ate, and she also gave some to her husband who was with her, and he ate. 7 Then the eyes of both were opened, and they knew that they were naked. And they sewed fig leaves together and made themselves loincloths. 8 And they heard the sound of the Lord God walking in the garden in the cool of the day, and the man and his wife hid themselves from the presence of the Lord God among the trees of the garden. 9 But the Lord God called to the man and said to him, “Where are you?”

- Genesis 3:6-9

8 But you will receive power when the Holy Spirit has come upon you, and you will be my witnesses in Jerusalem and in all Judea and Samaria, and to the end of the earth.” 

- Acts 1:8

Discussion Questions

1. Has shame ever caused you to hide from God and others? What can help you overcome that shame?

2. Have your positive, personal experiences with God ever moved you to share Him with others?

3. Why are Church Planting (starting new churches) and Campus Ministry strategic and effective ways to reach the world for Christ?

The Socially Responsible Church

Main Thought

Becoming more like God often means becoming more compassionate. For that reason, the Every Nation family strives to be socially responsible. But it’s important to remember that people’s primary need is spiritual. Only Jesus can meet our deepest needs, and Jesus chose the Church to deliver that message. No one else can do it! This mindset frames our understanding of social responsibility. We can then begin to identify needs around us and respond in faith. God has given us more than enough to get started. He will make a way for us to make an impact when we move with intentionality and faith.

Main Passages

30 The apostles returned to Jesus and told him all that they had done and taught. 31 And he said to them, “Come away by yourselves to a desolate place and rest a while.” For many were coming and going, and they had no leisure even to eat. 32 And they went away in the boat to a desolate place by themselves. 33 Now many saw them going and recognized them, and they ran there on foot from all the towns and got there ahead of them. 34 When he went ashore he saw a great crowd, and he had compassion on them, because they were like sheep without a shepherd. And he began to teach them many things. 

- Mark 6:30-34

35 And when it grew late, his disciples came to him and said, “This is a desolate place, and the hour is now late. 36 Send them away to go into the surrounding countryside and villages and buy themselves something to eat.” 37 But he answered them, “You give them something to eat.” And they said to him, “Shall we go and buy two hundred denarii worth of bread and give it to them to eat?” 38 And he said to them, “How many loaves do you have? Go and see.” And when they had found out, they said, “Five, and two fish.”

 - Mark 6:35-38

39 Then he commanded them all to sit down in groups on the green grass. 40 So they sat down in groups, by hundreds and by fifties. 41 And taking the five loaves and the two fish, he looked up to heaven and said a blessing and broke the loaves and gave them to the disciples to set before the people. And he divided the two fish among them all. 42 And they all ate and were satisfied. 43 And they took up twelve baskets full of broken pieces and of the fish. 44 And those who ate the loaves were five thousand men.

- Mark 6:39-44

Discussion Questions

1. Why is it important for Christians to serve others while continuing to keep Jesus front-and-center?

2. Have you ever served someone practically as a representative of Christ?

3. Is there a practical need that you, your Life Group, or another group of fellow believers can meet while sharing the love of Jesus?

What's at the Center?

Main Thought

Most of us are searching for a “center,” whether we realize it or not. We want someone or something that’s worthy of our attention, time, and even love. The Bible tells us that Jesus is worthy! Jesus is worthy because of who He is: the powerful co-Creator of the Universe and prophesied Messiah, among many other things. He’s also worthy because of what He’s done. Jesus lived a perfectly moral life by God’s standard, died in our place on the Cross, and rose again. We know that Jesus won’t fail us because of who He is and what He’s done. He’s worthy to be at the center of His Church locally and globally. Jesus is also worthy to be the center of our lives. When Jesus occupies the center of our lives, everything else will find its proper place and serve its proper function.

Main Passages

Then I saw in the right hand of him who sat on the throne a scroll with writing on both sides and sealed with seven seals. 2 And I saw a mighty angel proclaiming in a loud voice, “Who is worthy to break the seals and open the scroll?” 3 But no one in heaven or on earth or under the earth could open the scroll or even look inside it. 4 I wept and wept because no one was found who was worthy to open the scroll or look inside. 5 Then one of the elders said to me, “Do not weep! See, the Lion of the tribe of Judah, the Root of David, has triumphed. He is able to open the scroll and its seven seals. 6 Then I saw a Lamb, looking as if it had been slain, standing at the center of the throne, encircled by the four living creatures and the elders.”

- Revelation 5:1-6

33 But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.

- Matthew 6:33

Discussion Questions

1. What makes something worthy of our attention, time, love, etc.? 

2. What’s at the “center” of your life right now?

3. Do you think Jesus is worthy to be at the center of your life? Why or why not?

4. If you do, then what needs to be removed from the center of your life so that Jesus can take His proper place?

Honor God

Main Thought

One of our primary goals in the Every Nation Family, both locally and globally, is to honor God. Honor expresses itself practically through our priorities and focus. King Solomon started out honoring God. But, as he became successful, his honor shifted to other things. He wantonly pursued women and wealth. Solomon lost his sense of meaning after misplacing his honor. King Nebuchadnezzar of Babylon was insane. Eventually, he “lifted his eyes toward heaven.” He changed his focus and honored God, who is the highest authority. Then his sanity returned. As Christians, we follow the example of King Jesus. Jesus honored God the Father above His own desires. (Matt. 26:39; Mark 14:36; etc.) As a result, God honored and blessed Him. When we honor God, He honors us in return!

Main Passages

1 The words of the Teacher, son of David, king in Jerusalem: 2 “Meaningless! Meaningless!” says the Teacher. “Utterly meaningless! Everything is meaningless.” 3 What do people gain from all their labors at which they toil under the sun?

- Ecclesiastes 1:1-3

34 At the end of the days I, Nebuchadnezzar, lifted my eyes to heaven, and my reason returned to me, and I blessed the Most High, and praised and honored him who lives forever…

- Daniel 4:34

“In the beginning was the Word (Reason), and the Word (Reason) was with God, and the Word (Reason) was God.”

- ‭‭John‬ ‭1:1‬

Discussion Questions

1. Who, or what, are you honoring most with your life? Questions that might help you process this include...

   1. What’s your greatest focus or priority? What occupies your thoughts most?

   2. Does your schedule and/or spending align with who or what you’d like to honor most?

2. Honor is connected to purpose or reason. Does your answer (or answers) to Question One provide a purpose worth living for?

3. Is there a change you can make in your life to honor God, or prioritize Him, practically?

   1. Can something change in your: Schedule? Habits? Attitude? Relationships?