Main Thought
We all want to know that we matter. We want our work to be appreciated, our contribution to be noticed, and our voice to be heard. There’s nothing wrong with recognition, accomplishment, or wanting to do something meaningful. But without realizing it, we can begin looking to those things to tell us who we are. When we feel overlooked, corrected, or when someone else gets the credit, suddenly “ME” has a way of moving to the center.
In Philippians 1–2, Paul shows us a different way to live. Jesus knew exactly who He was, so He didn’t need to prove Himself, protect His position, or chase recognition. His security allowed Him to humble Himself, serve others, and trust the Father with the outcome. Christ-like character grows when we become secure enough in who we are that we don’t need everything to be about us. “Less of me” doesn’t mean less confidence, ambition, leadership, or purpose. Less of me doesn’t mean less effort, it means less ego. As more of Jesus is formed in us, more of Jesus can be seen through us.
Main Passages
27 Whatever happens, conduct yourselves in a manner worthy of the gospel of Christ. Then, whether I come and see you or only hear about you in my absence, I will know that you stand firm in the one Spirit, striving together as one for the faith of the gospel - Philippians 1:27
3 Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, 4 not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others. 5 In your relationships with one another, have the same mindset as Christ Jesus: 6 Who, being in very nature[b] God, did not consider equality with God something to be used to his own advantage; 7 rather, he made himself nothing by taking the very nature of a servant, being made in human likeness. 8 And being found in appearance as a man, he humbled himself by becoming obedient to death— even death on a cross! 9 Therefore God exalted him to the highest place and gave him the name that is above every name, 10 that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, in heaven and on earth and under the earth, 11 and every tongue acknowledge that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father. - Philippians 2:3-11
Discussion Questions
Are you naturally more comfortable working in the background, or do you enjoy being out front and recognized for what you do? What do you like about that posture?
Think about a time you were overlooked, criticized, or someone else got the recognition you wanted. What did your reaction reveal about what was happening inside you?
Philippians 2 shows us that Jesus was secure in who He was, which freed Him to humble Himself and put others first. Where do you find yourself needing to prove, protect, or promote yourself and what is one specific way you can choose “less of me” in that area this week?
