Main Thought
Joseph, the eventual husband of Mary and adopted father of Christ, was a man who had dreams too. The Greek word for his profession, often translated as “carpenter,” would have been more in line with what we call an architect or a general contractor. He would have worked for years to pay a high “bride price” before becoming betrothed to Mary. Then, his betrothed became pregnant! Who would have believed that it was actually an act of God? Joseph was righteous and wanted to send Mary away quietly. But God came to Joseph in a dream and made it clear that His plans were different. Instead of holding onto his goals and plans, Joseph submitted to God and obeyed Him. This obedience likely cost him his reputation; it would have been costly financially, and it cost them their comfort. But Joseph received the great privilege of being involved in God’s mission to save the world through Jesus. If we are willing to “altar” our dreams - place them on a metaphorical altar to God, changing (or altering) our plans to align with God’s purpose - then we’ll eventually find that God’s plans for us are better than our wildest dreams for ourselves.
Main Passages
This is how the birth of Jesus the Messiah came about: His mother Mary was betrothed to be married to Joseph, but before they came together, she was found to be with child by the Holy Spirit. 19 And Joseph her husband, being a righteous man and not wanting to disgrace her, planned to send her away secretly. 20 But after he had considered this, an angel of the Lord appeared to him in a dream and said, “Joseph son of David, do not be afraid to take Mary as your wife, because the child who has been conceived in her is of the Holy Spirit. 21 She will bear a son, and you shall call him Jesus, because he will save his people from their sins.” 22 All this took place to fulfill what the Lord had said through the prophet: 23 “The virgin shall be with child and shall bear a son, and they shall call his name Immanuel” (which means “God with us”). 24 When Joseph woke up, he did what the angel of the Lord had commanded him and took Mary home as his wife. 25 But kept her a virgin until she gave birth to a Son; and he called His name Jesus.
- Matthew 1:18-25
Discussion Questions
What stands out to you in the Main Thought or Passage above?
Pastor Brett said: “You need to live long enough to look back and thank God for saying ‘no’ to some things.” Can you look back at your life and thank God for saying “no” to any of your prayers or desires? Why?
What dream or plan do you need to offer to God, even if He changes it? What attitude or action step can you take practically as you do this?