“Absent or Abiding?” Discussion Guide

Main Thought

God wants to be present, active, and involved in our lives. God also invites us to abide, or remain, in Christ. Spiritual fruit like unconditional love, unwavering joy, and new disciples comes from our lives when we abide in Christ. Sometimes, we forget to abide in Christ because we’re busy. At other times, we’d rather remain occupied with other things. This can make us happy for a short time but we’ll eventually find ourselves spiritually drained. 

We abide in Christ when we read His Word, talk to Him in prayer, and obey Him consistently. Obeying Christ begins with the Great Commandments (to love God and other people), and with the Great Commission to “go and make disciples.” That’s when the spiritual fruit mentioned previously grows naturally out of our lives! We need to make the choice. If we’re absent, we’ll be empty. If we abide, then we’ll be fruitful.

Main Passages

“I am the true vine, and my Father is the vinedresser. 2 Every branch in me that does not bear fruit he takes away, and every branch that does bear fruit he prunes, that it may bear more fruit. 3 Already you are clean because of the word that I have spoken to you. 4 Abide in me, and I in you. As the branch cannot bear fruit by itself, unless it abides in the vine, neither can you, unless you abide in me. 5 I am the vine; you are the branches. Whoever abides in me and I in him, he it is that bears much fruit, for apart from me you can do nothing. 6 If anyone does not abide in me he is thrown away like a branch and withers; and the branches are gathered, thrown into the fire, and burned. 7 If you abide in me, and my words abide in you, ask whatever you wish, and it will be done for you. 8 By this my Father is glorified, that you bear much fruit and so prove to be my disciples.
- John 15:1-8

35 Do you not say, ‘There are yet four months, then comes the harvest’? Look, I tell you, lift up your eyes, and see that the fields are white for harvest. 36 Already the one who reaps is receiving wages and gathering fruit for eternal life, so that sower and reaper may rejoice together.
- John 4:35-36

Discussion Questions

  1. What can we learn about God based on the main passages above?

  2. What keeps you from abiding in Christ? Busyness? Being occupied with other pursuits? Maybe both?

  3. What can you do to abide in Christ?

Apply

  1. Reading the Bible, talking to God in prayer, and obeying God help us to abide in Christ. Do what it takes to abide!