Main Thought
The Bible has a lot to say about maintaining healthy relationships, especially in regards to romance. The Book of Proverbs tells us to “guard our hearts.” We’re familiar with the concept of “heart health” in our physical bodies. The spiritual and emotional health of our heart is just as important! It’s more difficult to diagnose spiritual heart problems. Everything can look good on the outside; if our spirit isn’t healthy, then it’s often only a matter of time before something goes terribly wrong. This is especially true when it comes to romance. Good habits can lead to a healthy physical heart. If we build good habits, like working toward covenant relationship and allowing passion to fill its purpose, then our spiritual hearts will be healthy too.
Main Passage
Above all else, guard your heart, for everything you do flows from it.
- Proverbs 4:23“…and the two will become one flesh.”
- Ephesians 5:31“But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.”
- Matthew 6:33
Discussion Questions
How does God’s Word differ from mainstream ideas about romance and dating? How does God’s Word impact your opinion on the subject?
Do you think that you have a healthy heart in a spiritual and emotional sense? What about in the area of romance specifically?
Think about the concept of guarding your heart in the context of your “relationship status,” and talk about what that means for you personally. Here are some sample questions:
Single: How might you be able to keep a healthy spiritual heart, whether you’re called to be single or in a relationship in the next season(s) of your life? How can you honor God with your intentions?
In a Relationship: Are you guarding your heart with your intentions and actions? Who helps you honor God as your journey?
Married: Are you protecting your covenant with God and your spouse in the way you guard your heart?