Holiness - God’s Character, Our Calling

Main Thought

Holiness is a quality that describes the very character of God. How does His holiness impact us? We’re meant to become holy, like Him. Our mindset toward holiness must be intentional. We are meant to think about it as a goal, and endure in our efforts to grow towards holiness. Of course, that’s easier said than done. As God’s children, we can be motivated toward holiness because it brings us closer to our Heavenly Father. The character and conduct that Jesus displayed on His way to the serves as an incredible model for us to emulate. We are called to mirror God’s holy character in us, so that we can be a light to the world.

Main Passages

13 Therefore, prepare your minds for action, keep sober in spirit, set your hope completely on the grace to be brought to you at the revelation of Jesus Christ. 14 As obedient children, do not be conformed to the former lusts which were yours in your ignorance, 15 but like the Holy One who called you, be holy yourselves also in all your behavior;

- 1 Peter 1:13-16

13 Now who is there to harm you if you are zealous for what is good? 14 But even if you should suffer for righteousness' sake, you will be blessed. Have no fear of them, nor be troubled, 15 but in your hearts honor Christ the Lord as holy, always being prepared to make a defense to anyone who asks you for a reason for the hope that is in you; yet do it with gentleness and respect, 16 having a good conscience, so that, when you are slandered, those who revile your good behavior in Christ may be put to shame.

- 1 Peter 3:13-16

12 Beloved, do not be surprised at the fiery trial when it comes upon you to test you, as though something strange were happening to you. 13 But rejoice insofar as you share Christ's sufferings, that you may also rejoice and be glad when his glory is revealed.

- 1 Peter 4:12-13

Discussion Questions

1. What stands out to you in the Main Thought and Passages above?

2. What, if anything, motivates you to be holy?

3. What do you think it means to “grow in holiness”? How might that look in your life?

What Makes God Holy?

Main Thought

We’re all familiar with the word holy, but how would we describe it or define it? The idea of being “set apart” can help us understand what it means to be holy. Yet holiness doesn’t start with us; it all begins with God. Personal holiness is grounded in the holiness of God. So what makes God holy? God is holy because He is completely set apart (or unique) in His power, as our Source of Life, and in His goodness. Psalm 96 exhorts us to worship God in the beauty of His holiness. We can do that when we sing, declare His goodness to others, and ascribe (or credit) glory and honor to Him. These things allow us to perceive and understanding God’s holiness more clearly. Then, we’re inspired to grow in personal holiness as we come to know God’s holiness in a greater way.

Main Passage

Oh sing to the Lord a new song; sing to the Lord, all the earth! 2 Sing to the Lord, bless his name; tell of his salvation from day to day. 3 Declare his glory among the nations, his marvelous works among all the peoples 4 For great is the Lord, and greatly to be praised; he is to be feared above all gods. 5 For all the gods of the peoples are worthless idols, but the Lord made the heavens.

- Psalm 96:1-5

6 Splendor and majesty are before him; strength and beauty are in his sanctuary. 7 Ascribe to the Lord, O families of the peoples, ascribe to the Lord glory and strength! 8 Ascribe to the Lord the glory due his name; bring an offering, and come into his courts! 9 Worship the Lord in the splendor of holiness; tremble before him, all the earth!

- Psalm 96:6-9

10 Say among the nations, “The Lord reigns! Yes, the world is established; it shall never be moved; he will judge the peoples with equity.” 11 Let the heavens be glad, and let the earth rejoice; let the sea roar, and all that fills it; 12 let the field exult, and everything in it! Then shall all the trees of the forest sing for joy 13 before the Lord, for he comes, for he comes to judge the earth. He will judge the world in righteousness, and the peoples in his faithfulness.

- Psalm 96:10-13

Discussion Questions

1. What stands out to you in the Main Thought and Passages above?

2. What stands out to you most regarding the three things that make God holy, and why?

3. Psalm 96 gives us three things we can do to worship God. Which one(s) will you try to do this week?

Hope for the New Year

Main Thought

We often approach a New Year with resolutions, excitement, and hope. Yet these things can fade almost as quickly as the fireworks do. How can we have real, lasting hope for the new year? It all begins when we do our best to love the people in front of us. We also need to confront the reality that things sometimes get worse before they get better. In spite of this, we should determine to have patient endurance. It’s much easier to endure when we remember God’s faithfulness and promises. We can go to His Word, seek Him in prayer, and we can keep track of the things He has done before. Once we remember God’s promises, we should refuse to give up on them. With God, we can remain hopeful that He has “plans for our welfare, not disaster, and will give us a future and a hope.”

Main Passage

4 This is what the Lord of Heaven’s Armies, the God of Israel, says to all the captives he has exiled to Babylon from Jerusalem: 5 “Build homes, and plan to stay. Plant gardens, and eat the food they produce. 6 Marry and have children. Then find spouses for them so that you may have many grandchildren. Multiply! Do not dwindle away! 7 And work for the peace and prosperity of the city where I sent you into exile. Pray to the Lord for it, for its welfare will determine your welfare.”

8 This is what the Lord of Heaven’s Armies, the God of Israel, says: “Do not let your prophets and fortune-tellers who are with you in the land of Babylon trick you. Do not listen to their dreams, 9 because they are telling you lies in my name. I have not sent them,” says the Lord.

10 This is what the Lord says: “You will be in Babylon for seventy years. But then I will come and do for you all the good things I have promised, and I will bring you home again. 11 For I know the plans I have for you,” says the Lord. “They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope. 12 In those days when you pray, I will listen. 13 If you look for me wholeheartedly, you will find me. 14 I will be found by you,” says the Lord. “I will end your captivity and restore your fortunes. I will gather you out of the nations where I sent you and will bring you home again to your own land.”

- Jerimiah 29:4-14

Discussion Questions

1. What stands out to you in the Main Thought and/or Passages above?

2. What was one major victory or difficulty in 2023 that may affect you in 2024?

3. Based on the Main Thought or Pastor Bret Holman’s sermon, what’s one thing that can help you have hope in the New Year?

Do You See What I See?

Main Thought

From the perspective of most people in the first century, shepherds weren’t people that you wanted to associate with. Yet God saw it fit to invite these men to the birth of His Son. So He sent an angel to them. We then begin to see the shepherds’ perspective in response to the angels’ announcement. They had faith, and their faith was accompanied by practical action. They made pursuing Jesus their priority. They knew that they wanted to see, know, and experience Jesus for themselves. Then, they shared their experience with others. God values us highly, just as He did these shepherds. If we’re willing to respond as they did, then we will also share the joy that they had.

Main Passages

8 And there were shepherds living out in the fields nearby, keeping watch over their flocks at night. 9 An angel of the Lord appeared to them, and the glory of the Lord shone around them, and they were terrified. 10 But the angel said to them, “Do not be afraid. I bring you good news that will cause great joy for all the people. 11 Today in the town of David a Savior has been born to you; he is the Messiah, the Lord. 12 This will be a sign to you: You will find a baby wrapped in cloths and lying in a manger.”

- Luke 2:8-12

13 Suddenly a great company of the heavenly host appeared with the angel, praising God and saying, 14 “Glory to God in the highest heaven, and on earth peace to those on whom his favor rests.” 15 When the angels had left them and gone into heaven, the shepherds said to one another, “Let’s go to Bethlehem and see this thing that has happened, which the Lord has told us about.”

- Luke 2:13-15

16 So they hurried off and found Mary and Joseph, and the baby, who was lying in the manger. 17 When they had seen him, they spread the word concerning what had been told them about this child, 18 and all who heard it were amazed at what the shepherds said to them. 19 But Mary treasured up all these things and pondered them in her heart. 20 The shepherds returned, glorifying and praising God for all the things they had heard and seen, which were just as they had been told.

- Luke 2:16-20

Discussion Questions

1. What stands out to you in the Main Thought and Passages above?

2. Do you think genuine faith must be accompanied by appropriate action? Why or why not?

3. What can you learn from the shepherds’ response to Jesus?

Meet Maher-shalal-hash-baz

Main Thought

Mary, Elizabeth, and Joseph are among the people included most often when we think of our favorite individuals associated with the birth of Jesus Christ. But who was Maher-shalal-hash-baz? He was the son of Isaiah, the Old Testament prophet, born approximately 700 years before Jesus. The name "Maher-shalal-hash-baz” meant “speed to the spoil, hurry to the plunder.” It was a reminder of the distress that was near to the people of Judah, with the empire of Assyria lurking nearby. Distress may be near to us too, and it can make the world seem dark. Yet light shines brightest against a backdrop of darkness. Isaiah foretold the coming of the Messiah, God’s Son, as a part of the same prophecy in which Maher-shalal-hash-baz was named. The Son of God came to be the light that we need: whether that be as our Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, or Prince of Peace. If we want to experience Jesus in these ways, then His leadership must increase in our lives.

Main Passages

3 And I went to the prophetess, and she conceived and bore a son. Then the Lord said to me, “Call his name Maher-shalal-hash-baz; 4 for before the boy knows how to cry ‘My father’ or ‘My mother,’ the wealth of Damascus and the spoil of Samaria will be carried away before the king of Assyria.”

-  Isaiah 8:3-4

The people who walked in darkness have seen a great light; those who dwelt in a land of deep darkness, on them has light shone.

- Isaiah 9:2

6 For to us a child is born, to us a son is given; and the government shall be upon his shoulder, and his name shall be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace. 7 Of the increase of his government and of peace there will be no end, on the throne of David and over his kingdom, to establish it and to uphold it with justice and with righteousness from this time forth and forevermore. The zeal of the Lord of hosts will do this.

- Isaiah 9:6-7

Discussion Questions

1. What stands out to you in the Main Thought and Passages above?

2. Which of the four names (which represents roles and/or attributes) of the Messiah stands out most to you: Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, or Prince of Peace? Why?

3. What might it look like for the government, or leadership, of Jesus to increase in your life? In other words, how can you follow His Word or His will?

Mary’s Christmas Choral

Main Thought

Mary’s experience in conceiving Christ as a virgin, by the power of God’s Holy Spirit, is often romanticized in the Christmas season. But have you ever thought about what that might have been like for her? People would have gossiped and assumed things about her. She could have lost her betrothed; in fact, we’re told in Matthew 1 that Joseph was planning to divorce her quietly. Mary’s future would have been very uncertain. In spite of this, Mary didn’t magnify the wrong things. She chose to magnify God by focusing on Him, and allowing her awareness and perception of Him to grow. We can learn from Mary’s example when we magnify Jesus. He’s near to us, and He satisfies our souls.

Main Passages

28 The angel went to her and said, “Greetings, you who are highly favored! The Lord is with you.” 29 Mary was greatly troubled at his words and wondered what kind of greeting this might be. 30 But the angel said to her, “Do not be afraid, Mary; you have found favor with God. 31 You will conceive and give birth to a son, and you are to call him Jesus. 32 He will be great and will be called the Son of the Most High. The Lord God will give him the throne of his father David, 33 and he will reign over Jacob’s descendants forever; his kingdom will never end.”

- Luke 1:28-33

46 And Mary said, “My soul magnifies the Lord, 47 and my spirit rejoices in God my Savior 48 for he has looked on the humble estate of his servant. For behold, from now on all generations will call me blessed. 49 for he who is mighty has done great things for me, and holy is his name.

- Luke 1:46-49

8 Draw near to God, and he will draw near to you.

- James 4:8

Discussion Questions

1. What stands out to you in the Main Thought and Passages above?

2. What kind of things do you have a tendency to “magnify,” focus on, or prioritize?

3. What do you think it means or feels like to magnify God? How can you do that this week?

How to Walk Out of Doubt

Main Thought

Almost everyone would claim that they try to be a good person. Christians try their best to be godly. Yet bad things happen to all of us in spite of this. We all face disappointment. Our disappointment can cause us to doubt God’s goodness. But doubt has consequences. It may help us deal with disappointment, but it keeps us from experiencing hope, God’s goodness, and deep connection. How do we leave this hopeless place behind, and walk out of doubt? We can take one step of faith at a time. We can trust God, pursue Him, or attempt to know Him a little more: moment-by-moment, day-by-day. If we continue to do this, then we’ll eventually find that we’ve journeyed out of our doubts. We’ll stand confidently in God’s goodness, regardless of what’s happening around us.

Main Passages

11 Then an angel of the Lord appeared to him, standing at the right side of the altar of incense. 12 When Zechariah saw him, he was startled and was gripped with fear. 13 But the angel said to him: “Do not be afraid, Zechariah; your prayer has been heard. Your wife Elizabeth will bear you a son, and you are to call him John. 14 He will be a joy and delight to you, and many will rejoice because of his birth, 15 for he will be great in the sight of the Lord. He is never to take wine or other fermented drink, and he will be filled with the Holy Spirit even before he is born. 16 He will bring back many of the people of Israel to the Lord their God. 17 And he will go on before the Lord, in the spirit and power of Elijah, to turn the hearts of the parents to their children and the disobedient to the wisdom of the righteous—to make ready a people prepared for the Lord.” 18 Zechariah asked the angel, “How can I be sure of this? I am an old man and my wife is well along in years.”

- Luke 1:8-18

23 When his time of service was completed, he returned home. 24 After this his wife Elizabeth became pregnant and for five months remained in seclusion.

- Luke 1:23-24

57 When it was time for Elizabeth to have her baby, she gave birth to a son. 58 Her neighbors and relatives heard that the Lord had shown her great mercy, and they shared her joy. 59 On the eighth day they came to circumcise the child, and they were going to name him after his father Zechariah, 60 but his mother spoke up and said, “No! He is to be called John.” 61 They said to her, “There is no one among your relatives who has that name.” 62 Then they made signs to his father, to find out what he would like to name the child. 63 He asked for a writing tablet, and to everyone’s astonishment he wrote, “His name is John.” 64 Immediately his mouth was opened and his tongue set free, and he began to speak, praising God..

- Luke 1:57-64

Discussion Guide

1. What stands out to you in the Main Thought and Passages above?

2. Have you ever seen doubt have consequences, either in your life or in someone around you? 

3. What’s one step of faith you can take to know God more this week?

HELPING YOURSELF BY SERVING OTHERS

Main Thought

Many Christians believe that our appropriate response to God’s love and grace towards us should be to worship Him. That’s true - but worship is more than music. True worship involves our entire lives, which includes the things that we do to serve God. Worship is always eventually accompanied by service. That’s because we’re followers of Christ, who came to serve God and others. The Book of Ephesians declares that we’ve been made new in Christ with good works in mind. This minds that serving isn’t just something we do; if we are in Christ, then it’s who we are. We find purpose and fulfillment when we act in alignment with our new identity in Christ.

Main Passages

34 Then the King will say to those on his right, ‘Come, you who are blessed by my Father, inherit the kingdom prepared for you from the foundation of the world. 35 For I was hungry and you gave me food, I was thirsty and you gave me drink, I was a stranger and you welcomed me, 36 I was naked and you clothed me, I was sick and you visited me, I was in prison and you came to me.’ 37 Then the righteous will answer him, saying, ‘Lord, when did we see you hungry and feed you, or thirsty and give you drink? 38 And when did we see you a stranger and welcome you, or naked and clothe you? 39 And when did we see you sick or in prison and visit you?’ 40 And the King will answer them, ‘Truly, I say to you, as you did it to one of the least of these my brothers, you did it to me.’

- Matthew 25:34-40

For even the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.”

- Mark 10:45

For as the body apart from the spirit is dead, so also faith apart from works is dead.

- James 2:26

10 For we are God’s handiwork, created in Christ Jesus for a life of good works that God had prepared for us to do.

- Ephesians 2:10

Discussion Questions

1. What stands out to you in the Main Thought and Passages above?

2. Do you currently serve others as a part of the local church? (Or have you done so in the past?) If so, how has serving others been a blessing to you?

3. Do you feel that you’re currently worshipping God through service in the way He has called you to? If so, great! If not, then what’s one practical step you can take in that direction?

Thankful Every Day

Main Thought

On days like Thanksgiving, and on many other occasions, we’re prompted to be thankful or grateful. Yet there are plenty of days when that’s difficult. Is it really possible to be thankful every day? It is - and it’s because of Jesus. Jesus can be the cornerstone on which we build our lives and place our hope. He’s a firm and trustworthy foundation. Sometimes, we need to remind ourselves of that fact. We can do that through song, in prayer, and in His Word. We can also remind each other of our hope in Jesus. Remembering that Jesus is our rock fills us with gratitude. That gratitude can carry us through difficult days with new perspective. It’s possible to be thankful every day, as long as we have Jesus Christ as our cornerstone.

Main Passages

22 The stone that the builders rejected has become the cornerstone. 23 This is the Lord's doing; it is marvelous in our eyes. 24 This is the day that the Lord has made; let us rejoice and be glad in it.

- Psalm 118:22-24

14 The Lord is my strength and my song; he has become my salvation. 15 Glad songs of salvation are in the tents of the righteous…

- Psalm 118:14-15

“Everyone then who hears these words of mine and does them will be like a wise man who built his house on the rock. 25 And the rain fell, and the floods came, and the winds blew and beat on that house, but it did not fall, because it had been founded on the rock.”

- Matthew 7:24-25

Discussion Questions

1. What stands out to you in the Main Thought and Passages above?

2. What’s one thing you’re thankful for that comes from God?

3. How can you remind yourself of God’s love, faithfulness, and promises when times are tough?

Journey of Generosity

Main Thought

Many things in life are a journey of progression and growth. Generosity is no exception to this idea. As we walk with Jesus, we’re meant to become generous like Him. God’s Word (the Bible) has the power to adjust our perspective. Proper perspective brings contentment when we remember what matters most. Confidence and trust grows within us as we follow the proven principles of God’s Word. Our priorities and convictions grow alongside our trust in God as we walk with Him by faith. If we’ll commit to continuing in this journey, then we’ll eventually grow into a life of generosity on earth that is felt in eternity.

Main Passages

13 Someone in the crowd said to him, “Teacher, tell my brother to divide the inheritance with me.” 14 But he said to him, “Man, who made me a judge or arbitrator over you?” 15 And he said to them, “Take care, and be on your guard against all covetousness, for one's life does not consist in the abundance of his possessions.” 16 And he told them a parable, saying, “The land of a rich man produced plentifully, 17 and he thought to himself, ‘What shall I do, for I have nowhere to store my crops?’ 18 And he said, ‘I will do this: I will tear down my barns and build larger ones, and there I will store all my grain and my goods. 19 And I will say to my soul, “Soul, you have ample goods laid up for many years; relax, eat, drink, be merry.”’ 20 But God said to him, ‘Fool! This night your soul is required of you, and the things you have prepared, whose will they be?’ 21 So is the one who lays up treasure for himself and is not rich toward God.”

- Luke 12:13-21

19 “Do not lay up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy and where thieves break in and steal, 20 but lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust destroys and where thieves do not break in and steal. 21 For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.

- Matthew 6:19-21

7 Each one must give as he has decided in his heart, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver.

- 2 Corinthians 9:7

Discussion Questions

1. What stands out to you in the Main Thought and/or Main Passages above?

2. Have you ever felt blessed by Christ-centered generosity - either as someone who received, or as someone who gave? What happened?

3. What kinds of blessing and benefits await those who develop generous hearts?

Bonus: in your personal time with God (outside the Life Group meeting), review the categories of givers listed at the end of Pastor Roland’s notes for the “Journey of Generosity” sermon from November 12, 2023. (You can find this in the “Sermons” section of our website.) What kind of giver are you right now? How can you partner with God, and journey onward toward the next step? Pray for God’s grace, joy, and provision as you walk with Him by faith!

(Un)afraid

Main Thought

2 Timothy 1:7 says that God didn’t give us a “spirit of fear.” A spirit of fear is marked by consistent, negative reactions to bad things that might happen. This fear keeps us from moving forward with God. But God offers power, love, and a sound mind as a solution to our fear. We can trust and rely on God’s power before turning to anyone or anything else. Fear bends our hearts inward toward self-preservation, but love turns our hearts outward toward service. Fear creates panic, but God wants to give us a sound mind filled with peace. These three things make us unafraid of sharing in God’s mission. Standing with God will cause us to suffer loss in some way. However, sharing in God’s mission also means that we’ll share in God’s victory. His victory will outlast anything that might cause us to be afraid.

Main Passages

for God gave us a spirit not of fear but of power and love and self-control.

- 2 Timothy 1:7

8 Therefore do not be ashamed of the testimony about our Lord, nor of me his prisoner, but share in suffering for the gospel by the power of God, 9 who saved us and called us to a holy calling, not because of our works but because of his own purpose and grace, which he gave us in Christ Jesus before the ages began, 10 and which now has been manifested through the appearing of our Savior Christ Jesus, who abolished death and brought life and immortality to light through the gospel...

- 2 Timothy 1:8-10

3 Share in suffering as a good soldier of Christ Jesus. 4 No soldier gets entangled in civilian pursuits, since his aim is to please the one who enlisted him. 5 An athlete is not crowned unless he competes according to the rules. 6 It is the hard-working farmer who ought to have the first share of the crops. 7 Think over what I say, for the Lord will give you understanding in everything. 8 Remember Jesus Christ, risen from the dead, the offspring of David, as preached in my gospel, 9 for which I am suffering, bound with chains as a criminal. But the word of God is not bound! 10 Therefore I endure everything for the sake of the elect, that they also may obtain the salvation that is in Christ Jesus with eternal glory.

- 2 Timothy 2:3-10

Discussion Questions

1. What stands out to you in the Main Thought or Main Passages above?

2. What’s one step you’re afraid of taking in your walk with God? How might God’s power, love, and/or a sound mind help you move in that direction?

3. Disciples of Jesus are called to become fishers of men (Matthew 4:19), and God wants to make us unafraid as we do so. Is there anyone you can share God’s love with as the Christmas season approaches? How can you do that?

The Gift of Quiet in a Chaotic World

Read Matthew 3:13-17 and Matthew 4

• What stood out to you most after reading these passages in the Bible?

Reflect on these questions

• Jesus was baptized in the wilderness; He fasted in the wilderness; He resisted the Devil’s temptation in the wilderness. Why do you think all of these things took place in a wilderness (a deserted, desolate, solitary, and quiet place)?

• The public ministry of Jesus began after He got baptized, fasted, and resisted temptation in private. What conclusions can we draw from this truth? How can these things apply to our lives as Christians?

Respond with faith in action

• Matthew 4:1 says that the Spirit led Jesus into the wilderness, a quiet place of solitary strength. How might the Holy Spirit be leading you into more effective quiet time with Him?

Where is God? Bible Study

Read Matthew 1

• What stood out to you most after reading this chapter in the Bible?

Reflect on these questions

• The geneaology in Matthew 1 breaks tradition with other ancient geneaologies by mentioning four women who were a part of the legal ancestry of Jesus (through Joseph). Those four women are listed below. What are some reasons they may have been included in Matthew’s genealogical account?

  • Tamar, who bore twin sons to her father-in-law at the end of a scanadal-ridden story (Genesis 38).

  • Rahab, a former prostitute, who helped aid the Israelites and whose family was spared from the collapse of Jericho as a result (Joshua 2; 6:22-23).

  • Ruth, a Moabite who followed her mother-in-law to Israel after the death of her husband. She later married Boaz. (The book of Ruth).

  • Bathsheba, who was formerly married to King David’s loyal solider, Uriah. She eventually gives birth to Solomon, the next King of Israel.

• The name Immanuel means God with us. What do you think it means to be close to God?

Respond with faith in action

• Joseph and Mary went on a long journey before and after the birth of Christ, taking many steps in faith.

  • Where do you think you are in your journey with God? (Are you still exploring faith? Are you ready to follow Jesus? Are you living for Him?)

  • What’s one step you can take in faith to follow God a little more closely?

From Water's Edge to Deeper Faith

Main Thought

In the books of Revelation and Ezekiel, God reveals an image of a river of life proceeding from God’s throne. The water is bright and beautiful. It gets deeper along the way, and it brings life everywhere it goes. This prophetic image points to the ultimate restoration of creation, and the eternal life that is available in God. Yet we don’t need to wait until eternity to jump into this river. We can experience a deeper life in God now! God calls people to leave shallow waters and move into a deeper experience of Him.

Main Passages

Then the angel showed me the river of the water of life, bright as crystal, flowing from the throne of God and of the Lamb

- Revelation 22:1

3 Going on eastward with a measuring line in his hand, the man measured a thousand cubits, and then led me through the water, and it was ankle-deep. 4 Again he measured a thousand, and led me through the water, and it was knee-deep. Again he measured a thousand, and led me through the water, and it was waist-deep. 5 Again he measured a thousand, and it was a river that I could not pass through, for the water had risen. It was deep enough to swim in, a river that could not be passed through. 6 And he said to me, “Son of man, have you seen this?” Then he led me back to the bank of the river. 7 As I went back, I saw on the bank of the river very many trees on the one side and on the other.

- Ezekial 47:3-7

8 And he said to me, “This water flows toward the eastern region and goes down into the Arabah, and enters the sea; when the water flows into the sea, the water will become fresh. 9 And wherever the river goes, every living creature that swarms will live, and there will be very many fish. For this water goes there, that the waters of the sea may become fresh; so everything will live where the river goes.

- Ezekial 47:8-9

Discussion Questions

1. What stands out to you in the Main Thought and Passages above?

2. Pastor Roland mentioned five areas of personal focus for the next five months. Which of these five things stands out to you most and why?

   1. Be formed by the gospel.

   2. Be empowered by the Spirit.

   3. Be equipped to make disciples.

   4. Be mobilized to take steps of faith.

   5. Be bold and engaging in gospel conversations.

3. God’s river life of life spreads restoration and healing wherever it flows. Who can you help bring God’s river of life to?

John 3: Bible Study

Read John 3

• What stood out to you most after reading this chapter in the Bible?

Reflect on these questions

• Nicodemus came to Jesus at night. As a Pharisee, things like peer pressure, societal expectations, image or status might have made it difficult for Nicodemus to seek Jesus. Have any of these things ever made seeking Jesus difficult for you?

• Why did Jesus use birth as a metaphor for the way he saves and changes people?

Respond with faith in action

• The chapter ends with John the Baptist telling people that Jesus must increase, and that he (John the Baptist) must decrease.

  • What do you think that means?

  • How can you apply this principle to your own life?

Note: We did not have a regular Worship Service on Sunday since we met a Paul Meyer Park, so this Discussion Guide is not connected to a sermon.

Above and Beyond: Bible Study

Read Luke 5

Reflect on these questions

• What stood out to you most after reading this chapter in the Bible?

• What’s one thing in this chapter that inspires you to believe in Jesus and/or love Him more deeply?

• Luke 1:1-4 reveals Luke’s intent in writing his gospel account, which ends with: “...that you may have certainty concerning the things you have been taught.” Luke wanted us to be certain that Jesus really is “the Christ of God.” (Luke 9:20.) With that purpose in mind, why do you think Luke included the content we find in Luke 5?

Respond with faith in action

• Think about the qualities or characteristics of Jesus revealed by this chapter. (His personality, His heart, His mindset, etc.) What’s one thing about Jesus that you find most compelling? How can you practically imitate Jesus in that regard?

A Family to Belong

Main Thought

All families have ties that unite them. It can be through blood relation, marriage, adoption, or some other deep connection. God’s Church is a family too. The church family spans denominations and ethnicities, breaking down barriers and boundaries to unify Christians across history. What connection do we share? We share faith in Jesus Christ, the only begotten Son of God, whose sacrifice makes us right with God. God the Father adopts us into His family, and the Holy Spirit comes to dwell in every believer. The connection we share is rooted in the deepest part of our beings. We should therefore strive to love one another, include one another, and build with one another.

Main Passages

19 So then you are no longer strangers and aliens, but you are fellow citizens with the saints and members of the household of God, 20 built on the foundation of the apostles and prophets, Christ Jesus himself being the cornerstone, 21 in whom the whole structure, being joined together, grows into a holy temple in the Lord. 22 In him you also are being built together into a dwelling place for God by the Spirit.

- Ephesians 2:19-22

12 But to all who did receive him, who believed in his name, he gave the right to become children of God, 13 who were born, not of blood nor of the will of the flesh nor of the will of man, but of God.

- John 1:12-13

14 For all who are led by the Spirit of God are sons of God. 15 For you did not receive the spirit of slavery to fall back into fear, but you have received the Spirit of adoption as sons, by whom we cry, “Abba! Father!” 16 The Spirit himself bears witness with our spirit that we are children of God, 17 and if children, then heirs—heirs of God and fellow heirs with Christ, provided we suffer with him in order that we may also be glorified with him.

- Romans 8:14-16

Discussion Questions

1. What stands out to you in the Main Thought or Passages above?

2. The following three statements are powerful truths about our place as the family of God. Which one is most impactful for you, and why?

   1. We were dead, but now we live.

   2. We were separated, but now we’re included.

   3. We were foreigners, but now we’re family.

3. How can viewing yourself as a son or daughter of God change the way you interact with people?

Parenting: Honoring the Past, Guiding the Future

Main Thought

Where does God want people to experience Him for the first time? In a church, a conference, or maybe even a concert? The Bible is clear: a child’s first experience (or introduction to God) is actually meant to be in the home. If a Christian parent’s goal is to educate their children on God’s principles, then that parent must first embrace God’s principles for themselves. The best way to teach love isn’t by mandating it - it’s by modeling it. (Jesus did this when He perfectly fulfilled the Great Commandments to love God and others with His death on the Cross.) Then, God intends for parents to teach their children His Word and ways diligently. We can intentionally seek regular opportunities, or capitalize on random ones. In addition to teaching and instruction, we’re meant to impart love for God through our passionate examples. Some things are caught, not taught. Those who don’t have their own children can assist and support parents in many ways as a part of the Church, which is a very important part of Christian family.

Main Passages

4 “Hear, O Israel: The Lord our God, the Lord is one. 5 You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your might. 6 And these words that I command you today shall be on your heart. 7 You shall teach them diligently to your children, and shall talk of them when you sit in your house, and when you walk by the way, and when you lie down, and when you rise. 8 You shall bind them as a sign on your hand, and they shall be as frontlets between your eyes. 9 You shall write them on the doorposts of your house and on your gates.

- Deuteronomy 6:4-9 

And Jesus came and said to them, “All authority in heaven and on earth has been given to me. 19 Go therefore and make disciples of all nations, baptizing them in[a] the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, 20 teaching them to observe all that I have commanded you. And behold, I am with you always, to the end of the age.”

- Matthew 28:18-20

Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. 2 “Honor your father and mother” (this is the first commandment with a promise), 3 “that it may go well with you and that you may live long in the land.” 4 Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord.

- Ephesians 6:1-4

Discussion Questions

1. What stands out to you in the Main Thought and Passages above?

2. Did anyone in your family teach you about God in an impactful way? Who was it, and how did they do it?

3. How can you be a blessing to the Next Generation, and teach them the ways of the Lord?

Singled Out

Main Thought

Society can obsess over romantic love, attraction, and sex. Even Christians can unintentionally turn marriage into an idol, hoping that it will their fulfill their ultimate needs and desires. But being single (biblically defined as unmarried and celibate) is a valid option in God’s eyes. It’s such a good option that even Jesus chose it while He walked the earth! Singleness provides special opportunities and freedom to people. It grants a greater level of autonomy than that which is experienced by those who commit to covenant marriage. A single person can use their increased opportunities to serve God and impact eternity, like the Apostle Paul did. Choosing to be unmarried and celibate, even for a season, gives people an opportunity to discover fulfillment in God as they exercise self-control. This fulfillment can be displayed to the world as a beautiful testimony, in which God’s love is experienced differently in manner yet equally in measure.

Main Passages

17 Only let each person lead the life that the Lord has assigned to him, and to which God has called him.

- 1 Corinthians 7:17

10 The disciples said to him, “If such is the case of a man with his wife, it is better not to marry.” 11 But he said to them, “Not everyone can receive this saying, but only those to whom it is given. 12 For there are eunuchs who have been so from birth, and there are eunuchs who have been made eunuchs by men, and there are eunuchs who have made themselves eunuchs for the sake of the kingdom of heaven. Let the one who is able to receive this receive it.”

- Matthew 19:10-12

32 I want you to be free from anxieties. The unmarried man is anxious about the things of the Lord, how to please the Lord. 33 But the married man is anxious about worldly things, how to please his wife, 34 and his interests are divided. And the unmarried or betrothed woman is anxious about the things of the Lord, how to be holy in body and spirit. But the married woman is anxious about worldly things, how to please her husband. 35 I say this for your own benefit, not to lay any restraint upon you, but to promote good order and to secure your undivided devotion to the Lord.

- 1 Corinthians 7:32-35

Discussion Questions

1. What stands out to you in the Main Thought and Passages above?

2. Is the love of Jesus Christ sufficient to meet the deepest needs of intimacy in a person’s life? Why or why not?

3. If you are single, how can you best cherish the life that God has called you to lead? If you are married, how can you best support those around you who are single right now?

The Power of Commitment

Main Thought

Today’s world is all about “me.” Marriage is no different. People want to know what they will “get out of” marriage. This kind of self-centeredness will not provide a foundation for a long-lasting and happy marriage. Christians, on the other hand, have a responsibility to look beyond themselves when it comes to marriage. God created marriage to mirror His love toward us. Jesus laid down His life in order to  put God and other people above Himself. Husbands and wives should seek to love each other with the same self-sacrificing love. When we commit ourselves to doing this well, our love stories can become a real-life picture of God’s love for the world.

Main Passages

21 …submitting to one another out of reverence for Christ. 22 Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. 23 For the husband is the head of the wife even as Christ is the head of the church, his body, and is himself its Savior. 24 Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit in everything to their husbands. 25 Husbands, love your wives, as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her, 26 that he might sanctify her, having cleansed her by the washing of water with the word, 27 so that he might present the church to himself in splendor, without spot or wrinkle or any such thing, that she might be holy and without blemish. 28 In the same way husbands should love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself.

- Ephesians 5:21-28

29 For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as Christ does the church, 30 because we are members of his body. 31 “Therefore a man shall leave his father and mother and hold fast to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.” 32 This mystery is profound, and I am saying that it refers to Christ and the church. 33 However, let each one of you love his wife as himself, and let the wife see that she respects her husband.

- Ephesians 5:29-33

16 “For God so loved the world, that he gave his only Son, that whoever believes in him should not perish but have eternal life.

- John 3:16

Discussion Questions

1. What stands out to you in the Main Thought and Passages above and why?

2. If you’re married, what does being married mean to you? If you’re single, what does marriage mean to you?

3. Does the idea that Christian marriage is meant to be different from other marriages outside of Christianity sound strange to you? Do you agree or disagree?