Freedom Beyond the Infraction: Finding Hope After It Happened

Main Thought

Almost everyone who has ever lived has been hurt. These hurts could be unintentional or intentional; small or great; fleeting or long-lasting. We know what it’s like to be hurt, yet we still long for hope. How do we find hope after we’ve been hurt? It can start with an altered perception. God’s bigger plan is often revealed through adversity. God can re-purpose pain and use it to bless people. Understanding this helps us to interpret what God wants to accomplish for us and through us, even in the midst of suffering. Then, as we faithfully walk with God to accomplish His will, His plan of redemption begins to unfold. Our godly responses can create channels through which hope, healing, and restoration can flow.

Main Passages

28 So when the Ishmaelites, who were Midianite traders, came by, Joseph’s brothers pulled him out of the cistern and sold him to them for twenty pieces of silver. And the traders took him to Egypt.

- Genesis 37:23-28 NLT

4 So Joseph said to his brothers, “Come near to me, please.” And they came near. And he said, “I am your brother, Joseph, whom you sold into Egypt. 5 And now do not be distressed or angry with yourselves because you sold me here, for God sent me before you to preserve life.

- Genesis 45:4-5

8 So it was not you who sent me here, but God. He has made me a father to Pharaoh, and lord of all his house and ruler over all the land of Egypt. 9 Hurry and go up to my father and say to him, ‘Thus says your son Joseph, God has made me lord of all Egypt. Come down to me; do not tarry. 10 You shall dwell in the land of Goshen, and you shall be near me, you and your children and your children's children, and your flocks, your herds, and all that you have.

- Genesis 45:8-10

Discussion Questions

1. What stands out to you in the Main Thought or Passages above?

2. Have you ever seen hurt turned into an opportunity for hope, either in your life or in the life of someone you know? What happened?

3. In the story of Joseph, hurt gave way to hope through renewed perception; an interpretation of God’s perfect will; and, redemption brought about by godly responses. Which one of these three things might be most helpful to you in a difficult situation you’re facing?

Hope Renewed

Main Thought

Have you ever seen a garden fill of weeds and thought, “Where did all of this come from?” They’re everywhere - yet most of us see them and understand that they don’t belong. Hopelessness can be like weeds; it’s everywhere, yet our hearts intuitively know that it doesn’t belong. Hopelessness ultimately comes from sin. (Sin is any word, thought, or deed that elevates some selfish desire at the expense of love for God or other people.) Hopelessness can emerge when sins are committed on a personal level or on a larger, social level. How can hope be renewed in spite of this? Hope is renewed when God restores us! The fires of difficulty, frustration, and even hopelessness can reveal actions or attitudes that don’t belong in us. If we allow God to remove these things and purify us, then we’re left as better versions of ourselves. We’re better positioned to move forward with hope, and to bring hope to the world around us.

Main Passages

Woe to the city of oppressors, rebellious and defiled! She obeys no one, she accepts no correction. She does not trust in the Lord, she does not draw near to her God.

- Zephaniah 3:1-2

Therefore wait for me,” declares the Lord,  “for the day I will stand up to testify. I have decided to assemble the nations, to gather the kingdoms and to pour out my wrath on them — all my fierce anger. The whole world will be consumed by the fire of my jealous anger. “Then I will purify the lips of the peoples, that all of them may call on the name of the Lord and serve him shoulder to shoulder.

- Zephaniah 3:8-9

11 “On that day you shall not be put to shame because of the deeds by which you have rebelled against me; for then I will remove from your midst your proudly exultant ones, and you shall no longer be haughty in my holy mountain.12 But I will leave in your midst a people humble and lowly. They shall seek refuge in the name of the Lord, 13 those who are left in Israel; they shall do no injustice and speak no lies, nor shall there be found in their mouth a deceitful tongue...”

- Zephaniah 3:11-13

Discussion Questions

1. What stands out to you in the Main Thought or Main Passages above?

2. Why do you think God has to restore us before our hope in Him can truly be renewed?

3. Think about a recent fire of difficulty, frustration, or hopelessness in your life. Did that fire reveal some sinful action or attitude in you that God wants to remove?

The Power of Hope

Main Thought

Few events can match the sheer excitement of a great sports comeback. God can use the setbacks in our lives, and in the world, to prepare comebacks too. God has a divine plan for hope. The world’s hopelessness can become a stage on which God’s eternal hope can stand out. This hope, in turn, creates an opportunity for us to discover purpose, when God brings us out of hopelessness and into His hope. He soothes us and strengthens us; then, we gain the opportunity to inspire and help others. But we can’t do this on our own. Jesus Christ - who rose from the grave in the greatest comeback ever - gives us the power to pursue Him and mount our own comebacks. If we’ll seek Him with all of our hearts, in spite of our hopelessness, then we’ll find Him right where we need Him.

Main Passages

11 For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future.

- Jeremiah 29:11

12 Then you will call on me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you. 13 You will seek me and find me when you seek me with all your heart.

- Jeremiah 29:12-13

3 Praise be to the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of compassion and the God of all comfort, 4 who comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves receive from God. 5 For just as we share abundantly in the sufferings of Christ, so also our comfort abounds through Christ.

- 2 Corinthians 1:3-5

Discussion Questions

1. What stands out to you in the Main Thought and Passages above?

2. What are some successful things you’ve done to seek God in the midst of a difficult, frustrating, or even hopeless situation?

3. Has God ever used your difficulties to inspire someone around you? Pray for someone you could engage with the gospel, and for an opportunity to introduce hope in God to them.